There are only a few stones so far in the Jewish section of Mt. Pleasant Cemetery in St. Johnsbury, Vermont. It meant a lot to me to be able to choose this for my husband Dave Kanell's burial location. It seemed to me important to know more and share something about the others there. The following narrative was written with Burt Zahler's wife Sachiko Yoshida. Here is a photo of Burt with Sachiko, courtesy of the Vermont Arts Council.
Burton Ross Zahler, 1931–2016
Burt Zahler’s stone in the Jewish section of Mt. Pleasant Cemetery in St. Johnsbury, Vermont, includes the name of his wife Sachiko Yoshida, who lives in St. Johnsbury. She kindly allowed me to ask her about her husband and her decision to have his burial location be in this lovely place.
Ms. Yoshida grew up in a small city in northwestern Japan, and worked as an art teacher there in junior high school and special education. In 1994 she served as a volunteer in the Japanese Peace Corps, called the Japanese Overseas Cooperation Volunteers (青年海外協力隊, seinen kaigai kyōryokutai), or JOCV. In her thirties at the time, working with the team in Honduras, she was impressed by meeting psychotherapist Burt Zahler, then 62 years old and survivor of two wives, who had tragically died in their youth. Not only was he joyful and giving, but he had the energy and commitment to once again fall in love. Two years later the pair married and settled in Japan, where Ms. Yoshida had a sister.
However, Burt missed his children and America, and Ms. Yoshida agreed to move to the United States with him, to Vermont, where he had lived with his second wife. Here are some of the details of Burt’s earlier life:
Burt was born on December 12, 1931, the younger of two sons
of the late Irving and Clara Zahler in New York City. Shortly after his birth,
the family moved to the Lower East Side (Avenue A and 4th Street) where he
learned about the hard scrabble life of the streets. Due to Irving's ill
health, they moved to St. Petersburg, Florida, where, during high school, he
became involved in trying to integrate the football team, earning him (and his
friends) praise from Eleanor Roosevelt. At the University of Chicago, where he
studied linguistics, he met Suzanne Dana Troy. After college, Burt and Suzanne
married and moved to Houston, TX where their two children, Erika Robin and Adam
Troy, were born. In 1959, Burt was accepted at Boston University for graduate
studies in psychology and the family moved to Brookline, MA. Tragically, soon
after arriving, Suzanne passed away, leaving Burt a single parent. Two years
later, he met and married Michal Frank, another grad student. During his
graduate school years Burt worked on a study of the psychotherapeutic uses of
psychotropic drugs, including LSD. The study was led by Richard Alpert (known
later in the 60's as Baba Ram Das) and Timothy Leary, who gained fame for his
LSD advocacy. In 1963, the family moved to Vergennes, Vermont, where Burt took
a position at the Weeks School, the state reform facility for juvenile
offenders. There, Gideon Jacob, Burt and Michal's first child was born.
Burt conceived of an intensive therapeutic treatment center for young offenders
aged 16-20. In 1966, Burt's second daughter, Rachel, was born and Lakeside
Center was established in Burlington, Vermont. In 1968, Burt's youngest, Reuben
Chaim, was born and one year later the family settled in Charlotte, Vermont. In
1970, Burt and Michal set up a private practice as the first non-psychiatric
psychotherapists in private practice in the state. They established a clinic,
The Center for Change, in South Burlington. Sadly, in 1981, Michal, too, passed
away. Thirteen years later with his children grown and on their own, he sold
most of his possessions and moved to Honduras where he met Sachiko Yoshida.
Burt opened a psychotherapy practice on Eastern Avenue in St. Johnsbury, and his wife reports that he also “had a lifelong passion for playing poker, playing at casinos and in tournaments until very recently, and in reading books of all kinds.” He did not affiliate with the local synagogue.
Although he had been raised in a culturally Jewish home, Burt was not at all religious. However, he told his wife he’d like his burial place to be the Jewish section of the cemetery in St. Johnsbury. His death took place on October 5, 2016, and Ms. Yoshida worked with Nelson Baker of Beth El Synagogue to set up the burial, along with a graveside farewell.
Ms. Yoshida treasures her Japanese culture and heritage, and is an artist working in both paint and sculpture. She honors her own Buddhist religion through meditation in her thoughtfully tended gardens. The burial stone also reserves a place for her with her husband, in the Green Mountains that she has adopted as her home.
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