[Originally published in The Caledonian-Record.]
Rosalie Harris, a pillar of the St.
Johnsbury community and a personal mentor to many individuals, died
peacefully at her family home on July 17, 2021. Rosalie was 102.
Some
reading this obituary may remember Rosalie fondly from her more active
years, while others will never have heard of her, or of the impact that
she and her husband Ben (1913-2014) had in the Northeast Kingdom for
more than half a century. This is what happens when one reaches the age
of 102.
Born and raised in
Montreal, Rosalie learned early to establish strong interpersonal
relationships of support and mentorship, becoming an anchor within her
large extended family of cousins which, even today, gathers monthly for
global video calls, reflecting the spirit of family and community that
Rosalie spread. She studied, practiced and graduated as a Registered
Nurse in 1940 from the Women’s General Hospital School of Nursing in
Montreal, and received a certificate in First Aid to the Injured from
the St. John Ambulance Association in 1941. Her nursing credentials were
recognized by Vermont in 1962.
In
October 1941 Rosalie met Ben Harris of St. Albans on a blind date and
they were married three months later on their fifth “date,” in Montreal,
beginning a 72-year marriage. After Ben’s military service, during
which Rosalie worked for the Red Cross in Boston, Mass., the couple
settled initially in Montpelier and then moved to St. Johnsbury in 1949
when Ben opened the local branch of his statewide business Nate’s, then
Vermont’s Largest Men’s Clothier. From that time on, Rosalie committed
herself fully to advancing the civic, religious, and cultural life of
the NEK. Her public service record includes:
- Caledonia Home Health Care, President and founding member
- Northeast Kingdom Mental Health Services, Inc., member
- Congregation Beth El, Sisterhood President, Secretary and Teacher
- Community Concert Series, Secretary, Publicity Chair
- Northeastern Vermont Kingdom Concert Series, Board
- Methodist Church Fashion Show, narrator and fundraiser for the St. Johnsbury Community School
- Vermont Assembly of Home Health Agencies, Board of Directors
- American Red Cross Blood Bank, Technician
- Fairbanks Museum, Board member, Fellow, Director and Clerk of the Board
- Girl Scouts, Board of Directors
- St. Johnsbury Junior Woman’s Club, President and advocate for the pre-school polio vaccination clinics
- St. Johnsbury Woman’s Club, Member
-
Northeastern Vermont Regional Hospital, Corporator, Trustee, Member of
the Executive Board, Chair of the Policy and Procedures Committee,
Library Staff Volunteer, Central Services Volunteer
- American Cancer Society, Vermont Division Secretary and Publicity Chair
- St. Johnsbury Youth Recreation Council, Member of the Board, Secretary
- Arlington School PTA, Secretary and representative to the public school Social Studies Curriculum Committee
- Kiwanis Club of St. Johnsbury, volunteer
- Northern Vermont University, Lyndon Campus, Foundation founding member, Visitors Board member
- Gilman Housing Trust, now RuralEdge, Board Member
- St. Johnsbury Athenaeum, Board Member
- Northeast Kingdom Chamber of Commerce, Trustee Emerita
- Profiled in the book “To Life! A Celebration of Vermont Jewish History”
Familiar
to many through all of these activities and through her boundless
optimism and positivity, Rosalie is perhaps best known to a generation
in St. Johnsbury as the person who explained Jewish beliefs and
traditions through her annual talks in the Sunday Schools of almost
every church in town. Rosalie had a way of making Jewish traditions and
beliefs accessible and understandable to non-Jews within the context of
their own religions, breaking down the barriers which too often divide
our communities. Rosalie continued her representation of the Jewish
community as a guest at St. Johnsbury Academy graduation ceremonies
where, for several years, she delivered the invocation and benediction.
In
response to Rosalie and Ben’s commitment to building bridges between
the Jewish and non-Jewish communities, their children endowed a Fund
which sponsors annual programming in the NEK to share culture, arts and
ideas across religions. Rosalie and Ben themselves endowed the Harris
Prize at St. Johnsbury Academy and a Nursing Scholarship at Northern
Vermont University, Lyndon Campus.
Rosalie’s tireless civic commitment was recognized with many honors including:
- David G. Rahr Community Service Award, with Ben, from the Vermont Community Foundation, 2009
- Community National Bank Community Service Award, with Ben, 2005
- Recognized by the Governor’s Commission on Volunteers, 1994
- St. Johnsbury Chamber of Commerce Citizen of the Year award, 1978
When
not busy serving the community, Rosalie devoted her time to her
immediate and extended family and to many hobbies and interests,
including piano, embroidery, crocheting, knitting, calligraphy, and
painting. She also sought and enjoyed conversations in Yiddish and
French.
Rosalie is survived by
her children Gertrude (Chips) Naparstek and her husband David of
Boxboro, Mass.; Andrea Harris of Brighton, Mass.; and Bill Harris and
his wife Marcia of Cambridge, Mass.; by grandchildren Mark Naparstek and
his wife Ember of Las Vegas, Nev.; Sam Harris and his wife Miriam of
Dedham, Mass.; and Jake Harris and his partner Rachel Slusky of Delray
Beach, Fla. Rosalie’s beloved granddaughter Amy Sara Naparstek
pre-deceased her in 1995. Great-grandchildren, Emerson and Zander
Naparstek, live in Las Vegas, Nev.; and great-granddaughter Nora Harris
lives in Dedham, Mass.
In lieu
of flowers, donations may be made to the Amy Sara Naparstek Fund at
Congregation Beth Elohim, 133 Prospect St., Acton, MA 01720; the Ben and
Rosalie Harris Fund of Beth El Synagogue, PO Box 568, St. Johnsbury, VT
05819; or the Ben and Rosalie Harris Scholarship in Nursing, Northern
Vermont University Lyndon Campus, 1001 College Rd., PO Box 919,
Lyndonville, VT 05851.
Funeral
services and interment were held at a private family ceremony at the
Hebrew Holy Society Cemetery in South Burlington, Vt.
UPDATE: A memorial service held on November 17, 2021, can be viewed HERE.